Most “normal” people wake up to the gentle, respectful sound of a bird chirping. In an ADHD household, the day begins with the low, ominous rumble of a not-so-distant bin truck. And that sound triggers the sudden, unwelcome awareness that a bin exists at all. Stay with me. This is Object Permanence in real time, or pop psychology TikTok unfolding IRL. Because the bin lives outside, it offers no emotional reminders when it’s full; it effectively ceases to exist in this dimen

Communication used to have a smell to it. Stay with me... Not always a good one. Sometimes it was morning breath. Sometimes it was the first time you accidentally let one rip in front of someone you were trying very hard to keep the illusion alive with. And that moment, remember that one? It actually mattered. No, it wasn’t attractive, but it was real. It was the quintessential, unspoken crossing over from “I am a perfect unicorn” to “roses really smell like poo, poo.” If you

The Fluid Nature of Sexuality Sexuality isn't something you were assigned at birth. It's more like a science project that started in school and somehow never ended. Remember those experiments where you mixed random chemicals just to see what would happen? That, but with significantly higher stakes and way less adult supervision. What we want, what we fantasize about, and how we show up in the world is like taking a drive without a map. The coordinates don't always match, and