Sexuality isn't something you were assigned at birth. It's more like a science project that started in school and somehow never ended. Remember those experiments where you mixed random chemicals just to see what would happen? That, but with significantly higher stakes and way less adult supervision. What we want, what we fantasize about, and how we show up in the world is like taking a drive without a map. The coordinates don't always match, and that's not a problem. That's

There’s a kind of silence that doesn’t come from a fight. It’s not the slam-the-door, sleep-on-the-couch kind. It’s quieter. Like someone...

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